Saturday, January 17, 2009

Between Love & Like. Taken from You Gan Er Xie. ♥

"爱没有先到先的的, 但爱也不以年历来计算吧?爱总是在喜欢之前...但爱总是在一刹之间.喜歡容易找,愛不容易尋 .喜歡是用感覺,愛是用心 .
喜歡是一種欣賞,愛是一種付出. 喜歡和愛感觉就在咫尺千里。


當你喜歡一個人時,你想和他在一起,因為他會帶給你快樂;離開後,你會想念,想著想著就會笑,然後繼續你平靜的生活,並期待著與他再一次重逢。
當你愛一個人時,你想和他在一起,那是一種牽腸掛肚的捨不得,怕他受委屈,怕他不能好好照顧自己;離開後,你也會想念,想著想著歎一口氣,'不知他現在過的怎樣?'然後你繼續你平靜的生活,希望他早日回到你身邊。


你喜歡的人在你眼中是天使,無所不能,他總會滿足你的任性的要求。
你愛的人在你眼中是孩子,傻傻的,你不期望他做出什麼'好事'來,只一味縱容他那些讓人哭笑不得的舉動。

你會希望你喜歡的人陪著你,然而你心中想的可能是你愛的人;
你會希望陪在你愛的人身邊, 看他在你面前睡得如此安逸甜美毫不設防的樣子,你會微笑,會覺得好幸福。


你喜歡的人傷害了你,你會生氣,並且一定要讓他哄著騙著逗你笑你才原諒他;
你愛的人傷害了你,也许你只會獨自傷心,因為你怕對他大吼大叫會嚇著他,你憂傷地微笑著,看著他的眼睛,一旦發現他的眼裡流露出歉意和悔恨,你會立即心疼地摟他在懷裡,那一刻,你也是幸福的。


你可以同時喜歡很多人,你會希望和很多人在一起,但也許很多年後你才發現,原來你愛的就只有那麼一個,就那麼一個,怎麼都不會變,你以為把他忘記了,其實只是忙的沒空想起而已,對於你喜歡的人,你關注的是他的優點;對於你愛的人,你關注的是他的缺點,並且,那些缺點如果無關原則的話,它們在你眼裡是可愛的,獨一無二的。

喜歡和愛其實只有一紙之隔,任何愛都從喜歡開始,當有天你突然發現,你喜歡的那個人在你眼中不再完美,而他的瑕疵正如月中的桂影一般 讓你更加依依不捨,你會覺得與他光彩照人的一面相比,你更願意看他在你面前無助的表情,不知道是不是應該祝賀你,總之,你的感情昇華了——仰慕不是愛,甚至不是喜歡,當你對一個人只有仰慕之情時,你們在一起便失去了和諧。"

Credits to the blogger Patrick.
I love dis post so much!
And I definitely think he's absolutely right about it!

[Between love and like. Oh such big difference! They might seem slight, but the impacts are huge. This post is inspiring.]
♥ ♥♥

What Is That?


Today I went out with CY to Yellowtown to buy something.
When we were on the pathway to Vern's, I almost stumbled upon a tall specky guy.
I guess he aged around 19 or 20 something.
It was like he wasn't trying to give way to me.
There were a few guys a few paces behind him.


Geez, he's a head taller than me.
I felt weird as he walked straight on me.
I stopped and he stopped.
I heard he said something.
"Miss, er... I..."
I didn't really listen to him and walked away, because I didn't really know he was talking to me. =.=!!!


Me and CY went into a shop and bought the things we wanted.
When we got out of the shop and were about to walk to CY's car, the guy popped out of a candy shop.
He stopped me by calling, "Miss, miss!"
I was startled.
He walked up to me and said, "Er.. Miss, my friend wants me to take your phone number."
I was like WAT THE HELL?
So I looked at him questioningly.
He repeated, "My friend wants me to take your phone number."


I looked at CY, and then back at him.
"May I know who he is?"
He gave me a very illogical answer.
"Er.. I forgot what's the name already.. But.. but, he wants me to get ur phone number."


I became alert at this because all these didn't make much sense.
So I replied him politely, "Uhm.. Sorry, I dunno him, so I can't give you the number. I gotta go."
Then I quickly walked off with CY.


When we were crossing the road, hell, the guy ran after us again.
"Miss, miss! Wan Ching asked for your number!"
I just told him, "She got my number already. I'll sms her. Fine. Bye."
Hello, Wan Ching was in National Service now.
She got my number a longggg longggg time ago.
And even if she lost it, she could get it from her girl friends. duh~
AND I would rather sending the number to Wan Ching herself than giving my number to some unknown strangers. X.x


He better get Wan Ching beside him next time if he tries to get my number again. :((